More confirmation we are related, but you were nicer to your friend than I would have been. At this age, anyone who does not understand how I introvert and how their extroversion is not my bag is not trying hard enough to look outside themselves. I don’t necessarily think it’s well-intentioned if someone were to “try and get me out” when I don’t want to go out and have never liked to be out. I think part of it is that too few people are asking questions, even of their closest friends, to find out who we really are deep inside and what makes us tick. More reasons to put down our phones, take some time and space, and look at each other in the face when we see each other.