It's actually not 90 people who agreed with her, it's 10, but since you are new here, I get why you didn't see that. Your response poses so many problems and actually makes the point. Like, why do you care? Most people who have an adverse reaction have it because they've had a bad relationship experience and are transferring that resentment onto a stranger on the internet who is just telling his truth. It's not really my worry if you, personally, agree with it or not.

Also, not idea what this has to do with a "day job" or being a "white dude". but again, super productive feedback that I am currently cherishing next to a pile of books on how to date when you are on old crank as you referred to in your other hyperbolic comment.

And the last thing is the most hilarious. Why would parties and dancing be automatic fun for everyone? I don't like either and it's not because I don't like fun. I don't like crowds and dancing is not fun for me. What I really appreciate so much is your dime store psychology and sweeping generalization on my life just because I am honest about who I am and what I want in a relationship. I will be the first to buy your self-help book telling others how they should be.