I appreciate your comment, but without reading my twenty (or many more) other pieces on dating I think you’ve made a lot of assumptions. I’m not hurting from a breakup or mad at the apps. I haven’t dated in two years on purpose, to focus on myself. Writing about something doesn’t mean it’s a struggle. I’ve had several short-term, nice relationships and a couple of longer-term ones from the apps. It’s about how, at this age, I’ve scaled out of the BS of the apps and dating, in general, to be my best, on my own.